Hypocrisy in Nepali Society and the Culture of Blame: A Bitter Reflection From Within

“Nepal bigryo,” we say. “Sarkar le kehi gardaina.”
Dirty streets? Government’s fault. Corruption? Politicians. Slow service? Bureaucrats.

But what if I told you the real culprit looks back at you in the mirror?

This isn’t just a rant — it’s a confession and confrontation. A reflection of what it means to live in a society where we expect change without changing ourselves, where those who try to rise are pulled down, and where hypocrisy is a daily habit.

I’m Nepali. I’m part of this system. And I’m sick of it.

1. Our Streets Speak Our Mentality

You don’t need a census report to know how messy we are — just walk outside.

Plastic bottles, tissues, wrappers from pan, gutka, lollipops — thrown right on the street.

No dustbin in sight? Fine. But your pocket exists, doesn’t it?

But instead of changing our behavior, we blame the municipality, saying:
“Sarkar le kina safai gardaina?”

The hypocrisy is unbearable — we dirty it and demand someone else to clean it.

2. Talk Rude to Get Things Done: The Government Office Experience

Walk into most government offices, and it’s a game of “who shouts louder.”

Talk politely? They ignore you.
Speak with frustration? Suddenly your file moves.

This creates a vicious cycle of toxic interaction where everyone loses and the system remains hostile and unproductive.

3. Try Starting a Business in Nepal: Politics Will Ask for Your ID

I tried to open a restaurant once. I had a concept, some money, and hope.

But before anything could start, I was asked:

“Tapaai kun party bata ho?” ("Which political party are you from?")

Not “what’s your idea”, not “how many jobs will you create” — but your political backing.

Ordinary citizens aren’t allowed to dream big without interference.
If you’re not politically aligned, you’re seen as a threat — or simply dismissed.

4. Hospitals That Hurt: A Personal Night I’ll Never Forget

A few months ago, I spent the night in a hospital with a friend. What I saw shook me.

Young visitors made noise, scrolled loudly on TikTok, and disturbed patients.

And then I met a 21-year-old woman suffering complications from an illegal abortion started at a pharmacy.

We avoid proper hospitals out of fear, money, or shame — and then blame the system when tragedy strikes.

5. Alcohol and Junk Food: We’re Poisoning Ourselves

Fast food, greasy snacks, cheap liquor — our go-to combo every weekend.

We know it’s bad. But we eat it anyway.

Then comes the blame game:
Sarkar le pesticide control gardaina
Supply chain ma monitoring chaina

We poison ourselves and then blame someone else for the symptoms.

6. Social Media Activists, Ground-Level Ghosts

Our Facebook walls are full of awareness posts. Everyone’s outraged online.

But when it’s time to act on the street — silence.

We’ve confused keyboard activism with actual change.

7. Who Really Runs This Country? Follow the Money, Not the Titles

Nepal has 761 government bodies — but no proper roads, drainage, or local support.

Who does the real work?

• Clothing business: Madhesi and Indian traders
• Restaurants and tourism: Newars, Gurungs, and hardworking ethnic Nepalis
• Startups: Self-made youth — often unsupported by power structures

Meanwhile, many from the so-called “educated class” only protect power, not progress.

This is not caste hate — this is pattern recognition.

8. Our Greatest Hypocrisy: We Want Change, But Not the Responsibility

We want better education — but don’t check our kids’ homework.
We want cleaner cities — but throw garbage out of car windows.
We want less corruption — but bribe to get our passport early.

This isn’t just bad behavior. This is deep-rooted hypocrisy.

Conclusion: A Confession From a Fellow Hypocrite

I’m not above this. I’ve bribed. I’ve shouted. I’ve looked the other way.

But now I know — Nepal won’t change unless I do.

This blog isn’t just a rant. It’s a call:

• Hold your trash. Find a bin.
• Respect others — especially in hospitals, offices, and quiet zones.
• Stop waiting for the “system” — be the shift in your own area.

Change starts in your hands. Or not at all.